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and works at Circum Mensam LLC. SF is gone. While nutrition is an important component to recovery, the emphasis of therapy is addressing the issues within the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual capacities of a person. Or start picking on other people. See traffic statistics for more information.. when in fact, the perpetrators of abuse *started* the FMS organization.I'd say "something's fishy" about Maudsley. I think it's great you are looking for ways to deal with this issue... Just don't be afraid to talk to someone! I didn't care for her ideas that she should have control over where i go online. The causes are a diverse group of emotional factors and influences, that have a profound impact on the person who suffer them and their families. Goodbye. So, what you're saying is.....You're upset because you were asked not to share your personal viewpoints, and you felt that it was "social control" causing you to silence yourself.So now, your goal is to use "social control" to force someone else to stop giving their own viewpoint?Just making sure I'm keeping up, here. Darling, I'm agreeing with you!Since we're friends, obviously, you know that I am ALL ABOUT parents ending disordered eating, poor body image, over-exercise, untreated anxiety, all the things that can turn a predisposition into an eating disorder.What you don't seem to have gotten is that this is not "cause" nor do any of those things have to be in place to turn a predisposition into an eating disorder. I am one of a group of eating disorder activists who have conveyed on several different occasions recently that we are horrified with the content of the SF website. I've also come to believe (given years to get perspective and having done lots of work myself) that eating disorders are extremely complex and difficult to pin on any one thing. You? The start of a very stressful holiday season for people who suffer from mental illness is about to begin and we were not given a smooth transition. As one long time poster told me "If Charlotte had still been around, this would have never happened.". That's the truth. I am glad the place fell apart. I was a member of SF for several years, not as a parent but as one with an eating disorder. Something Fishy said all eating disorders are dangerous, adding that even if a person has been diagnosed with a specific disorder, that person may exhibit behaviors from each of the different eating disorder categories. Laura, very true. I was a member of sf back around 2001. I recovered with their help. I am now 8 years eating disorder free, and SF started my recovery.Yes, they would lock posts and tell you to get real time help for certain things, but for people who don't know, the list of things you couldn't say were:1. We are a Certified Spravato Center and Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) facility. I learned how to feed myself, how to keep strict track of my weekly training and body measurements to be able to evaluate my progress.”. Whether it is treating our kids from this heinous disease or questioning treatment centers' approaches or asking why evidence based approaches for ED are not being use or demanding our country(ies) put in place systems to avert suffering and address healing. I can't tell her she would be crushed. Anonymity can also be a way to bully or or manipulate, or create false identities.The biggest problem with anonymous postings is that it is impossible to know WHICH "anonymous" one is reading in any given comment. My name is Amy Cunningham. I agree! Please feel free to contact me if you want to assist in this endeavor and others like it. There are tons of recovery eating disorder support sites, but they are not moderated by trained full time professionals like Something Fishy was once. Of course times change, and not everyone fits the same mold. Your mom will do anything to help you, don't keep it a secret tell someone all you have to do is reach out. No one knew about it and it had nothing to do with why I was unwelcome which was from the first month I was on the site (I have the transcripts). There was one person who was a regular and declared herself "head honcho". They use food and diet to cover up their emotions, fill their internal voids, and cope with daily pressures and problems in life. I also can't get myself to eat more, I try and it hurts so badly I want to cry. We really aren't going to get along, I'm afraid. "Symptoms of an Eating Disorders | Eating Disorder Symptoms | Anorexia | Bulimia | Compulsive Overeating | The Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders." Your looking for answers so your on the right track! I was a long time member, and left, was banned. Numbers/food lists/explicit ED behaviors The reasoning for this is to avoid triggering people and to focus on the FEELINGS and not the BEHAVIORS.The rules were not bizarre but were carefully thought out and strictly enforced in order to create a safe, recovery oriented community. Something Fishy something-fishy.org. I suppose anonymity is useful but we are trying to solve problems here so please come out into the open. How is bashing Laura something that matters? There was another regular who fought with her over this. I saw that place as dangerous. I was not the first or the last person to be drummed out of the community for ideological reasons, and this sort of thing goes on everywhere humans have keyboards, I find. But sitting quietly or bitching about people never got anyone anywhere in terms of making change. Suicidal posts (ie. I still laugh. I know what you are saying is not true, as do you, and the power of hosting this blog is in giving you a chance to say it anyway. I never got to meet her as I joined just before her death. As should the company who owns them - Bain Capital. Until I found them I felt isolated and alone. She was participating as a mom, presented herself as one of us and never shared that she was researching for the publication of a book. Kensington HATED me!!! And, it is only in looking backward that the signs of something as serious as bipolar disorder or schizophrenia were there but those diseases are not diagnosed until a full psychotic break occurs. Apparently when you stepped down as Executive Director, they stopped involving you in the internal workings at FEAST. That's why I invited her onto our site tonight, to have her share her story of what it's been like for her … I feel the need to comment here because I think this is a skewed vision of the SF website as it existed when it was still being run by the woman who designed it and her supportive husband. I find it rather interesting that you do the same thing to parents and caregivers on FEAST that happened to you on SF. They had a ed forum, and it was a free-for-all. Why wouldn't I do this in public? We had healthy debates in the forums for many months. An ED diagnosis is not a "gotcha" to parents that they screwed up and open season on their parenting. I went to Mercy Ministries and that is such an AWESOME place. This second poster was amy medina. LOL on the forgotten password. On this issue, you should really get off that soapbox and practice what you preach. Not sure where you got the idea that the protest around SF had to do with Maudsley. I didn’t think there was something stopping me from achieving this, I just hadn’t found the right help, until I came across Something Fishy. Hope you are well!! And that was wrong. It doesn't phase me. I need help I have an ED and it gets worse every second of the day. You probably know her as "Something Fishy". The ED world is changing - put your name to your posts if you want serious dialogue. I am glad the place is gone and my old username no longer comes up in search. It was that amy medina flat out lied about myself and some others on the forum, and we could not defend or address her false accusations. I don't know you but I do know FEAST.And evoking Charlotte.... wow. And if you got banned, all you could do was read them post about you, knowing you weren't able to respond. Eating disorders, from my own experience, tend to emerge prior to age 18. Just be aware that it might not work for everyone and that's why its great to have many perspectives. Having graduated from inquisitive newbie to long in the tooth mod I do see the problem of keeping a site true to its principles, up to date with current research and open to all genuine posters as the tricky job it is. Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders One of the oldest parent-created sites providing resources, information, online forum and support features. I live in East Africa and work in HIV/AIDS. It undermines our credibility. I guess I'm not sure where Anonymous is coming from. Mothers who score high on scales of narcissism. Symptoms of an Eating Disorders | Eating Disorder Symptoms | Anorexia | Bulimia | Compulsive Overeating | The Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders . Something Fishy provides information about eating disorders, their causes and the complications that can result. If you wanted my personal assistance or really wanted me to know what happened to you, if you were concerned for FEAST and wanted me to know, there was another way. 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